What Restaurant Behavior Says About a Person

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“How you behave in a restaurant is how you behave in life.” Ever since I heard that observation from a friend years ago, I’ve wondered why it hasn’t become a more common aphorism. Dining out can be an opportunity to see a person at their hungriest, their showiest, their most human. Do they yell at wait staff? Do they tip well? And then come the questions of food-sharing and chewing etiquette.

Many of these quandaries come up in Curb Your Enthusiasm, a show with a unique focus on the drama that can unfold when people join together to eat. Restaurants are “the ideal petri dish for [Larry David’s] social experiments, which have everything to do with how people should conduct themselves in a shared world,” Mac Schwerin writes in a new essay. “Ironically, the food itself is rarely addressed.”

Today’s newsletter is a collection of Atlantic articles about dining that are less about food than about the people eating it.


On Dining Out

The Everyday Indignity of Dining Out

By Mac Schwerin

On Curb Your Enthusiasm, anything can happen when Larry David walks into a restaurant.

Read the article.

What Home Cooking Does That Restaurants Can’t

By Reem Kassis

When we eat, the social context matters perhaps even more than the food.

Read the article.

Do Yourself a Favor and Go Find a ‘Third Place’

By Allie Conti

We need physical spaces for serendipitous, productivity-free conversation.

Read the article.


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P.S.

Technology and the coronavirus pandemic have transformed the meaning of gratuity, my colleague Charlie Warzel wrote last year: “The new tipping culture is confusing at best.”

— Isabel

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